If you are looking for advice on getting a girl to suck your cock or getting your dick inside a girl’s pussy, this isn’t the post for you. However, if you want to learn the 7 lesbian sex tips porn won’t teach you, this is the post for you. You’ll learn some of the most important things you can do to keep your girl in the mood.
We have to say this upfront: not all lesbian porn is created equal. Some of it is just trash, while others are decent content, whereas some are just made on what people like to watch which in reality is completely very different from what in actual is lesbian sex. And thus, I decided to create a blog on lesbian sex tips which every lesbian out there should know.
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Top 7 Lesbian Sex Tips You Should Know
There’s nothing like a little lesbian sex education to liven up your life and keep you coming back for more. These seven lesbian sex tips will get you started on the right track and leave you craving more.
1. Explore Your Body
Although you may have experience with lesbian sex but if you are a newbie or you don’t properly know although you had it a few times then this point is for you. As every woman is different so to know how would she be pleased is a very daunting task, so the best way is by exploring your own body. Masturbation is a good way to learn more about the female anatomy and to try out new things leaving worry behind if you are doing it right or not. Take your own time to get to know your erogenous zones. Try different techniques and see which experiment works for you. And there would be high possibilities that one or two of the thing would be right and feel good with pleasing as it did to you.
All you need to do is do a little experiment and exploration with your body, never hesitate to pull the shades by experimenting with new things, no one gonna judge you. Take your own time exploring your body and knowing where is that spot for you.
2. Trim Your Nails
Although, it is a very minor detail which often gets off the mind. But trust me it’s one of the important aspects of lesbian sex. We would have definitely seen in porn that women are having lesbian sex and having long and sexy-looking nails. But when you get down in real life you would have to get on with your fingers for deep penetration as it has a pretty well important role. And just imagine inserting your fingers with long nails inside the woman’s vagina can be how dangerous as the woman’s vulva and tissues are very delicate and must be treated with absolute care. So make sure you trim down your nails before getting down in the business with your girl or else in place of pleasurable and satisfying moans you would be hearing pain moans.
3. Stock Up the Lube
Let me tell you one interesting fact about having lesbian sex, you can go on back to back. To be more precise, usually, man needs some time to recharge before having another round of orgasms. But that’s not the case with women, as most women have the capability to have multiple orgasms back to back without needing any recharge time. But as there are a good side and bad side too, the same applies here. A woman’s body has trouble keeping up with natural lubrication. So to make sure that you and your sex partner are comfortable you need to use a lot of quality lube. And that’s why I mentioned stocking up the lube because it is very important for having pleasurable and comfortable sex without any interruption due to vaginal dryness. With that, it will also provide you with the enjoyment of sensual fun of lubing each other.
4. Have Communication
Having good communication is the key to a healthy sex life between partners: this does not only go for straight sex but also for lesbian sex. It’s very important that you don’t rely on the porn videos for the reference or guide, as you would have generally seen in most of the lesbian porn there is no resemblance to what actually happens when two ladies take it to the bedroom, they just start with the business as soon as they get laid. All these are scripted and done by actors who act like it is so realistic but it’s just vice versa.
In reality, you should have good communication before having sex and should know what your sex partner likes, where she wants to be touched and where to be kissed and many other things like this and the same goes with you. You both should have enough communication especially when you are with a new partner. Apart from this between-sex communication is also important to know whether you both are comfortable if you want anything to change or any other things that should be noted. If what she’s doing isn’t working for you, speak up and tell her what you like. Pretending to enjoy something that you don’t like will diminish the experience for you. To hit upon what works for you both, be honest and open.
5. Practice Safe Sex
Having lesbian sex doesn’t mean that there is no risk of sexually transmitted diseases and you and your partner don’t have to take precautions. Whichever sex you practice there is always the risk of STIs as they can be transferred through skin-to-skin contact of sexual partners, and oral contact with sexual parts another reason behind this can be sharing of sex toys too. If you are inspired by porn videos like a lesbian girl sharing the same toy then you may be at risk of STI. So if you were having any type of unprotective sex you should stop these activities immediately and get tested for STI.
To practice safe sex you must make sure that before you get laid with your partner you both go for screening for STI, don’t just let it aside because your partner is a woman and there can’t be any risk of STI. It’s a very dangerous myth for all people believing it. Also, you need to take special care that you use dental dams before oral sex and condoms. And not to share same-sex toys.
6. Deal Nervousness
It may be sometimes awkward, especially when you are going to have lesbian sex for the first time. You might be worried about pleasing your partner or worried about sharing your body with someone else. Just know that whatever you feel is normal. Everyone is freaked out about their first time. Just go with the flow but yes if your instincts are denying you and you are worried then it may be a red flag so be cautious about it. As if you feel that your partner isn’t being completely honest with you about her sexual history, those concerns are valid then you should pause and rethink the situation.
If you don’t worry about your health or safety or feel that your boundaries are being respected. It is possible to talk to someone close to you about how you are feeling. You will probably find that they are the same way. Make sure to listen to yourself and to get your head straight before you have sex.
7. Be Calm & Go with Flow
Whatever sex you do, at last sex is sex. So just let it happen, it’s the most natural feeling in the world. If you would be worried about how to please your partner, whether would she like it or if would she be satisfied then you won’t be in the moment and be tensed all the time and definitely miss the enjoyment. If you feel anything which is making you uncomfortable be free to speak to your partner and ask her the same their’s should be no hesitation in this.
Just enjoy the moment be calm and polite and let it go with the flow. I am pretty sure if you are following all the tips and point it is gonna be a rocking moment for you. But it is most important that you won’t be tense regarding anything, like about your girl or some work-related pieces of stuff or anything just be in the moment and enjoy it to the fullest.
Conclude
In conclusion, in order to get the most out of sex, you have to be aware of your body’s physical response and adjust your actions accordingly. It’s also important to learn how to please your partner and find ways to bring them closer together but you also need to go with the flow without thinking much. We all know that you can never go right with the porn-influenced sex reference, thus we’ve included a few lesbian sex tips porn won’t teach you ever and which in reality help in lesbian sex.
Hoping you would have enjoyed reading and imagining the moment with your girl. Share it with your lesbian friends and partners and help them also know the real tips for having safe and most pleasurable lesbian sex. If you have any other points and you think that should too be included in the blog, comment down below in the comment section. Thanks for reading!!!!
