Small sells – just look at laptops. So why does the theory that bigger is better persist? On average, a man’s penis is 5.2 inches long when fully erect according to a King’s College London study. Nine out of ten men have a penis between 4 and 6.3 inches.
Not all traditional positions and tips can provide the needed pleasure if you’re that one guy (because you’re smaller or larger). This isn’t to say you can’t have great sex, though; you just need to know how to use your tool optimally.
Few people today believe size is the only predictor of quality sex. Considering only a minority of women climaxes through penetration, a man’s ability to give pleasure hardly hinges on a few inches.
Toys, mouths, and hands are great tools and sources of pleasure that a modestly endowed man can rely on. You can also adjust sex positions to enhance pleasure depending on your size. Here are some top tips from experts on having great sex despite the cards you’ve been dealt.
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Extend Foreplay
Extending the love game will make sex better for any woman no matter what positions you decide to try. It builds arousal, which is the biggest predictor of pleasure. Playing around before penetration will also take pressure off the man, which is a huge plus if he’s self-conscious about his size or sexual abilities.
Learn her erogenous zones. Typical ones include the feet, the knee pit, the inner thighs, the nipples, and the neck. Caress these areas. Take it slow. After doing that for a while, start fingering her. She might orgasm even before penetration.
Use Toys
Toys can make up for size in ways you find hard to imagine. For example, you can use a remote-controlled vibe to get her wet or a dildo to add the missing inches. Ideally, you’d get a comfortable, safe, affordable and visually appealing product. A hollow dildo with a harness will add some much-needed spice to your sex life, especially if you’re into role-playing.
That’s just one of many options. You can use a vibrator for clitoral stimulation before or during penetration. If your girl is into back door play, an anal masturbator or beads will enhance her sensations.
Owning a realistic sex toy has innumerable advantages. Don’t hesitate to invest in these pleasure-provoking devices and always buy from legitimate retailers.
Don’t be tempted to go for a low-quality, cheap product. Not only will it not have the desired effect, but it might also break on the third or fourth go. What’s more, the cheapest toys are made of hazardous materials.
Doggy Style
Experts concur that this position is the best for smaller sizes. It enhances friction and sensations. In this position, the woman experiences a powerful sensation during penetration. To make it even stronger, she should squeeze her thighs together.
Entry from behind is a great option for men who are smaller in size because they can hit her G-spot, which is a few inches inside the rear wall of the vagina.
Find the Best Angle
Sex is all about hitting the best angle for a man with a small penis. Don’t hesitate to use props to facilitate your search. These can include furniture or any other object around the house as long as it’s safe.
For instance, you could try putting your hands on a chair when doing it from behind and standing. When the woman is on the bottom, she can put a pillow under her hips to help the man get “deeper”, creating a more filling and satisfying sensation for her.
If you use a small vibrator on her clitoris as you thrust, she’ll feel like she’s in heaven. Sex will be more pleasurable for you too because her vaginal walls will tighten as she becomes more aroused.
A Twist on the Missionary
Yes, we know, the boring missionary. But it doesn’t have to be! The woman puts her legs over the man’s shoulders so he can go in deeper. This allows for greater pleasure and sensation. Alternatively, the woman can lie with her butt on the edge of the couch, armchair, or bed, legs up. The man makes the most of what he has when he enters her in this position. Basically, this is about vaginal access without other body parts getting in the way.
Go Without Lube
Sensation will improve with a little friction, so if she lubricates well enough naturally, there’s no need for more.
If she has very little natural lubrication, on the other hand, penetration may feel uncomfortable no matter the size. Before you start shoving, thrusting, and grinding, make sure you get her juices flowing.
Make eye Contact
This is a position that lets you make eye contact and make out as well as gets all your hottest parts touching. The man sits on the end of the chair or bed and the woman straddles him. They start grinding with their arms around each other.
To start, the woman lies on her back and holds her legs up and back over her head. Her feet should be maximally near the floor.
The man squats over her and penetrates her, thrusting in and out in the process. This position creates an angle where the anterior vaginal wall is stimulated, right where the G-spot is.
Cowgirl
Another great strategy for a man with a small penis worth trying is woman-on-top. The reason it’s so good is that it allows the woman to position her partner in a way that’s most enjoyable for her. In addition, it maximizes penis length.
Both partners can stimulate the clitoris this way, which is sure to lead to climax. Instead of moving up and down, the man should have her rock and grind against him. This guarantees he doesn’t slip out.
Try Anal
Last but not least, you’ll find what’s lacking for vaginal sex to be just right for anal. You’ll need silicone- or oil-based lube for it.
